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Q. My husband and I want to start a family. How soon should we see our doctor if we don’t conceive?

A. It really is age-dependent. If you’re under 35 years old, you can wait a year. From 35 to 39, if you aren’t pregnant in six months to a year you should consult a doctor. After age 40 you shouldn’t wait more than six months. These are general guidelines, based on the average time it takes women to conceive at various ages. In the United States, for example, the average 30-year-old having a baby will take three to four months to conceive. As she gets older, that time frame increases.

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Everyone knows about maternity leave, but sometimes women need to take time off before a baby arrives. If you’re having fertility treatments or trying to adopt, here’s what you should know to get the time off you need. Whether—and when—to tell your boss that you’re undergoing fertility treatments or arranging an adoption depends a lot on your relationship with your supervisor. While most workplace experts caution against revealing too much personal information, how do you explain being late for work because of blood tests and ultrasounds, and then needing to get home for hormone injections? Or what if you must travel abroad to bring home a baby, and then want three months to bond with your adopted child?
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